Who’s Advising You?

The first Psalm in the Bible talks about the dangers of getting the wrong counsel, listening to the wrong voices, and mixing with the wrong people. ‘Oh, the joys of those who do not follow the advice of the wicked, or stand around with sinners, or join in with mockers. But they delight in the law of the Lord, meditating on it day and night. They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit each season. Their leaves never wither, and they prosper in all they do’ (vv. 1-3 NLT).

Implicit in the word ‘prosper’ is stability, nourishment, productivity, strength, durability and success. So pick your friends carefully and prayerfully, because those closest to you can have the ability to make you or break you. Check out any advisor before he or she speaks into your life.

Make sure they are:

1) people of integrity;

2) people of faith;

3) people with influence;

4) people with complementary gifts;

5) people who share your vision;

6) people who are loyal;

7) people who are creative.

If you look for these seven qualities in those who advise you, there’s every chance you’ll succeed in what you’ve been called to do.  Also be sure to get God’s input. ‘Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it”’ (Isaiah 30:21 NIV).

Make sure the goals and plans you’ve set are in harmony with God’s will for you. Because if they’re not, having the best counsellors in the world won’t help you one bit.

‘…They prosper in all they do.’  Psalms 1:3 NLT


Psalm 9:9-10; 16:11; 18:16, 19; Proverbs 8:17, 34

In the morning you hear my voice; in the morning I prepare a sacrifice for you& watch!

Those who know your name put their trust in you, for you, have not forsaken those who seek you! You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore! He rescued me, because He delighted in me! Make me to know your ways, o Lord; teach me Your paths.

Lead me in your truth and teach me; I love those who love me, and those who seek me diligently find me! Blessed is the one who listens to me, watching daily at my gates, waiting beside my doors! For whoever finds me finds life!

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