A lady flew across the country to tell a talk show host how her husband had left her for another woman. The lady who was young, vibrant, and beautiful, pulled out a photograph and said, ‘Just look at her. He left me for that!’ The host concluded, ‘Sadly, we’ve been conditioned to think that ‘‘looks’’ are all-important, when, in fact, they’re not.’
Nevertheless we keep measuring, comparing, and beating ourselves up because we fall short.
If you can’t enjoy who you are because of what you’re not, you’ll never be happy.
Advertisers spend billions getting us to decorate a shell that’s in a losing battle with Mother Nature and Father Time—all in an effort to create what we think will attract others. And when it doesn’t work, we get depressed and wonder what went wrong.
Of course, it’s important to look your best, but when you’re obsessed with your appearance you become superficial. And others lose respect for you because they discover that although the box is beautifully wrapped, it’s empty.
If you want to know what ultimately wins hearts and attracts the right people, read these words: ‘I pray that from His glorious, unlimited resources He will empower you with inner strength through His Spirit. Then Christ will make His home in your hearts as you trust in Him. Your roots will grow down into God’s love…And may you have the power to understand…how long, how high, and how deep His love [for you] is…Then you will be made complete’ (vv. 16-19 NLT).
That’s the secret to inner beauty!
‘He will give you the mighty inner strengthening of His Holy Spirit.’
Ephesians 3:16 TLB