Beyond the Myths of Parenting (2)

July 27 BEYOND THE MYTHS OF PARENTING 2

Here are another two parenting myths.

1) Good parents always produce good children. If only that were so, but it’s not! Even when you do all the right things, your children get to make their own choices in life. Cain and Abel were raised in the same home by the same parents, but Abel’s choice pleased God while Cain’s led him to commit the first recorded murder. Even model parents have no control over the choices their children ultimately make. This doesn’t mean your attempts to be a Godly influence on them are wasted; not at all!

It just means that when you’ve done your best you should:

a) recognize and accept your limits;

b) teach your children wisdom, allowing them to be responsible for the consequences of their decisions;

c) trust God to do what you cannot do. Some kids get the message quickly, others like the Prodigal Son take detours – but God never gives up on them—and neither should you.

2) Good parents treat all their children the same way. The Bible says, ‘Teach children in a way that fits their needs…’ (Proverbs 22:6 ERV). Every child is wired with a unique set of needs and abilities, and wise parents recognize and work with these characteristics. Your responsibility isn’t to try to make them the ‘perfect kid’. It’s to try to discover the distinctive pattern God built into each child, and work to develop that pattern in them. The reward God promises such parents is ‘…when they are old (detours notwithstanding!), they will not leave the right path’ (v. 6 ERV).

‘…How blessed are you parents…’ Psalms 127:5 TM


 

ENCOURAGEMENT 4 TODAY

John 14:6, 12, 14, 19-20, 23; 16:27 Luke 11:9-10, 13

I am the way, & the truth, & the life! No one comes to the Father except through me. Whoever believes in Me will also do the works that I do; & greater works than these will he do, because I am going to the Father. If you ask me anything in my name I will do it! Because I live, you also will live! In that day you will know that I am in y Father & you in me & me in you! If anyone loves me, he will keep my word, & my Father will love him & we will come to him & make our home with him! The father himself loves you, because you have loved me 
& have believed that I came from God! I tell you, ask, & it will be given to you, seek, & you will find; knock, & it will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives, & the one who seeks finds & to the one who knocks it will be opened. How much more will the heavenly father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him!

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